Respite for Caregivers

During the long, cruel winter, caregivers in my region wore themselves out. Thank goodness we live in a place that spoils us with abundant spring beauty. Here are some gifts of the season found Between the Pond and the Woods. 

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Daffodils in the wild

Other places in Pennsylvania warm up early and their plants are way ahead of ours. This region — the Poconos — lies at a higher altitude. Flowers open later here. We’re just beginning to see daffodils and hyacinths.

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Weeping willow near our stream

Even the trees around here take their time pushing leaves out. Weeping willows (above) are the first to show some green. But the woods in Hickory Run State Park (below) still look pretty bare.

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The winter freeze and thaw cycle was unrelenting. It uprooted many trees in our forests. You can see, above, how the roots of the tree lost their hold in the earth and just gave up. Don’t follow their example. Reach for the things that give you strength and hold on!

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When trout season arrives, fishermen approach their hobby with great focus and lots of equipment. Anglers love the Lehigh River and its tributaries. This photo was taken along the banks of the Lehigh Gorge Trail. Our streams are running fast with spring rain and snow melt. Fish and fishermen are pleased.

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All these little signs of beauty help restore my sense of optimism.  Being a caregiver can drain my strength. But nature is a great healer, especially at this time of year. If you can’t get out for a walk yourself, I hope you get a little boost from these photos.

Staving Off Dementia: A success story

When someone gets a diagnosis of Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI), they can slide into despair, believing that dementia is their destiny. But we now know more about factors that promote brain disease — and practices that can protect us from it. This week I spoke to a valiant woman who’s decided to fight back.

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I won’t state her full name, but Kay is the name I’m using for the amazing person I just interviewed. She carries a cane, but doesn’t use it much. The words that come out of her mouth are just twisted enough to make you guess something might be wrong. Her eyes sparkle despite the fact that she’s received two gamma knife treatments — at the maximum radiation level. Kay displays insight and passion that many healthy people lack.

Kay has a diagnosis of MCI and a condition called a degenerative cerebellum.  I’d never heard of this disease before. The National Institute of Neurological Disorders says symptoms may include “a wide-based, unsteady, lurching walk, often accompanied by a back and forth tremor in the trunk of the body” as well as “slowed and slurred speech”.

But I’m not writing to explain her neurological problems. I want you get inspired by her story. Instead of letting the symptoms take over, Kay has developed a lifestyle that she calls “very busy”. I met her during rehearsal for a choir performance. Kay joined the choir because her doctors suggested that musical activity might help address the disease symptoms. She also learned that socialization is an important disease fighting strategy. The choir helps her connect with others.

During choir practices, Kay has learned to read music. She believes that the musical training has helped her project her voice better and pronounce words more clearly. But she wasn’t willing to stop at just those benefits. Kay decided to learn to play music, too. At first, her third and fifth fingers ignored efforts to push them down. But now they both respond.

Kay says her doctors believe that the musical training is helping her to “postpone the inevitable.” Her symptoms have declined and she says that music has helped her “create new pathways” in her brain. In addition to her musical activities, Kay follows a rigorous diet. She eats few carbs, no sugar and no red meat. She’s in her sixties, but I would have guessed that she’s ten years younger.

Her example is a good antidote for people worried about inheriting the Alzheimer’s gene. It’s also instructive for anyone who has experienced brain trauma through injury or stroke. If we have one of these problems, we could fret about what will happen to us in the future. We could sit back and wait. But we also have the option of doing what Kay does: taking a proactive approach to our health.

I’m the first one to be lazy about diet. I crave chocolate and I love the second glass of wine. Cholesterol is a problem I don’t want to face. But I looked at this woman and was so impressed at how hard she works to live well. Kay believes she can “postpone the inevitable ’til the very end.” Would you fight that hard? Could you be that committed? What would it take to make you answer yes?